Thank you for posting to me and your thoughts. I hope you all had a lovely week-end.
I would not have guessed that you think XH is testing the waters. I merely thought he is happier with his life these days and just writing "to an old friend" because he is bored.
XH wrote a few more times again. Since I told him that he changes his age for coming back all the time he wrote that he was sorry but would miss the first appointment. I also wrote to him that I could rent him a room but he would have to share certain things -LOL.
He also wrote if I am serious about going on holiday with a complete stranger. He thought it wasn't a good idea and that he heard lots of horror stories about internet dating and gave me a few examples. He also said that there are a lot of con men about and I should be very careful.
Then he mentioned that he knew I hated winter and wrote AGAIN that it is a pity WE didn't buy a cheap apartment in a certain place because WE BOTH could use it now! He continued to write about the things he recently did. He mentioned that he listens to some radio station from the area which is near to where I live. So it seems that he wants to stay connected to this area!
One "funny" thing he wrote as well: that an old girlfriend sent him an unfriendly mail and that it was strange that some people turn against you for no reason – LOL. He seems to have forgotten that he did exactly the same thing to some of our/his friends some years ago!
I always wait a few days before I reply to XH's mails.
I had quite a nice week-end and went out a few times. It is really getting autumn now but next week there is supposed to be at least one more very warm day. Tomorrow I will meet yet another guy who answered my ad. He sounds quite nice but as usual I have no expectations.
I wish you all a nice week.
nlt: Thank you for your compliments and kind words. I can understand that you are not as far as I am because I have been much longer at this than you. I am sure one day you will be there as well. - Yes, I am having quite a good time at the moment although on some days, especially on warm and sunny days, I am very sad and always think that XH and I could have had such a lovely life now.
