came to pick up kids,she was po'd that i was early and other stuff. her new car broke down again and had a flat,she said i slashed her tire and more stuff i did over the years.the kids said she's been mean too.
Anyway she said i can ask her anything,cnslr helping yes,what's cnslr said,"nothings wrong with me,i need to empower myself,live my life,cnslr told me u sent her emails and faxes saying i was an alcoholic and smoked dope with friends," i said i actually wrote our life history for my cnslr which passed on to yours.
She said i'm controlling etc. Said when i ask, she's going to say yes, no, or non of your f'ing business.
I asked her if she wanted a divorce, she said yes, i said ok, you said you didn't want one, she said as time goes by she realizes she's much happier w/o me and doesn't care about split xmas and holidays or splitting assets, said she was always miserable in our marriage.
"Said her memories of last 18 yrs are different than mine."
i asked well u filing tomorrow then,"i need money to file."
i asked well before you do,can we go to marriage cnsl'ing together,she goes,"well who's gonna see us together"wrinkled her face and said "yeah whatever if you want to set something up."
i told her well nothing i do now is going to affect anything and everything i do will, she didn't get it.she wrinkled her face up.
I stayed calm cool collected.
Called her a minute ago, said thanks for telling me the truth,asked lets hold up on filing until we do get to a pt of her wanting marriage cnsl'ing, she said now you're trying to control that,too. i said no,i'm just not going to set up marriage cnsl'ing tomorrow. i said ok bye.
