Thanks GAG! Today started out worrisome because H never came to bed last night at all. He slept on the couch. Am trying to not read into it. Almost wonder if it's a kinda test by him to see if I'd get all upset about it? (I did in the past.) I didn't comment on it and was normal & pleasant to him this morning.
Things that seem to be received positively by H: - Compliments. - Ask his advice on something and follow it. - Me leaving the house to go do something either with or without the kids. - Listening without offering advice. - Ensuring to greet him when he comes home with the door open and taking something out of his hands if they are full. - Doing things around the house. - Listening undistracted to him when he speaks and telling the children that they can not interrupt when he is speaking.