Thanks GAG! Today started out worrisome because H never came to bed last night at all. He slept on the couch. Am trying to not read into it. Almost wonder if it's a kinda test by him to see if I'd get all upset about it? (I did in the past.) I didn't comment on it and was normal & pleasant to him this morning.

Things that seem to be received positively by H:
- Compliments.
- Ask his advice on something and follow it.
- Me leaving the house to go do something either with or without the kids.
- Listening without offering advice.
- Ensuring to greet him when he comes home with the door open and taking something out of his hands if they are full.
- Doing things around the house.
- Listening undistracted to him when he speaks and telling the children that they can not interrupt when he is speaking.