Thanks Grace. I am very physical....back to the college days in terms of weight. Lots of exercise. Sometimes, I'm distracted and that's when I tried to think all of this through. I guess my fear is that he's here physically, but not emotionally. I'm concerned he's only going through the physical motions to try to make the divorce more friendly. I guess there are friendly divorces, but ours probably won't be, if it got to that point. I have been very clear to him that it's all or nothing with me and him. While he doesn't agree, I think he does understand/believe me.
