Recovering yourself from all this

[frank_D]

To clarify, D18 lives with me in the house. D14 lives with her mom but comes over here every day. She stays overnight when she wants to.

So, you MUST detach or at least stop reading into and commenting about everything she does, then I think more progress will be made. You can move faster on this road Frank. You "know" it in your head. And while venting MAY be helpful sometimes it's the opposite. Writing things sometimes gives power to the words that should remain unsaid...just a thought.

Yes, good point. It does give power to the words. That needs to stop

Look, You write things to others, but you don't really apply them to yourself as much as you need to, don't you think? Why not do that now so you can really move on and change? My T and then our MC said if we had not made some real progress within 6 meetings, we should try another MC...fwiw.

Thanks for reminding me of this. I'm changing, albeit slowly, but I am changing.