{{{{{{{Jackie}}}}}}

You know that you are needed - don't you? You know how much your kids love you and depend on you for your love and what remains of stability in their lives rightn now?

Your H is too lost to appreciate much of anything right now. As for the kids - you did and said what you had to for their emotional welfare. As they get older, your kids will realize what you have done, are doing and will do for them in the future!

You are a phenominal woman - I know I met you. And from your posts I know that you are wonderful mother - and most importantly a stable parent.

Hang in there Jackie. I know it is tough maintaining your PMA in the face of your H's antics. I know that this might be tough - but remember this is about him and not a reflection on you as a human being, a W or a mother!

take care,
Manisha