The only drawback I can see is that you may not be pushing yourself on the self improvement things because you already know that you will make it through this.
I have grown as a person more than I could have ever imagined during my sitch. So either I've made it past the hurt enough to know I'm going to be OK and/or I've gone back to my old self and started stiffing the emotional stuff and tucking it away...still trying to figure it out. So I'm not sure if I'm also guilty as charged. Hmmmm
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
