The EA/PA - Should LBS proactively address it?

[peacetoday]

MY xh was very clear in the beginning he didnt want D
it took him 1.5 years of OW and cake eating to file
He was scared to really cut the ties in beginning
SO
maybe the approach is worth a try
they can see from the start that if they leave the R is over
and they need to create a new life that may work or not
no wavering
my xh had it a;; for a long time and that didnt work for me
tough love
it may not work but you seem like you want to move ahead and youy have a point about feeling the pain
getting on with it
but the healing process is long and will take the LBS 1-2plus years either way
my opinion
peace