Thanks John. I will look up her site. When we talked about closure I meant the divorce. I am not expecting HIM to give me closure. It is something I need for myself. I cant get closure with joint bank accounts, his mail coming to my house, his name on the bills (changed some but some need him to change them), driving a car in his name etc etc
I am not using any of these to stay in contact and I am not trying to get over a break-up. K
