As you said, you are only 10 weeks into this....

And I feel you are way too clinical in your approach to all of this.

Why can't you just be still, and do nothing.

Why can't you just learn how to detach from the situation and stop putting so much emphasis on what will happen in a few years from now?

You are reacting, and you will make bad choices.

Not enough time has passed yet.....

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.