Should I let her know I don't judge? That I will forgive? I'm not sure what to do.
I'm not in a position to give advice here, but the challenge seems to be validating without enabling. In other words, sending signals and messages that make it easy for her to stay where she is.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
