Most of us take off for the weekends. Jack and Mach don't post when they are at home, but when they come back, they do read and catch up...
Don't worry, no one has run away LOL..
Glad you clarified the toilet thing, now it makes a bit more sense.
You found HB's lessons. Important ones to learn. Very important.
You don't have to write the words "smiley face", we know what the emoticon means.
Lost said who cares about statistics. Totally right. One thing I know about statistics is that anything can be manipulated to say what you want it to.
BUT, look around this board. Look at the people posting to you. Survivors, even if they aren't finished with the journey yet. Some M, some D. But the measure of success isn't the saved M IMO. It is the person and the growth.
And yes you were told not to talk to her. Why? Because you were doing more damage than good. You were spinning because of the interaction you were having. You needed to slow down. Eventually and even now, there will be times that interaction will happen and will have to. That is why it is important for you to be calm. So that you can handle it. So that you can SEE and not just hear and react.
Keep working on yourself AYK.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
