"It's really hard to feel the compassion for their feelings when they are acting out from those emotions by hurting us and our children"
Just tuning in here-read what Greek has to say too about WAS not blowing from a distorted perspective but really believing that their lowly opinion of the LBS is justified.
Its the rejection that`s so hard to deal with.So painful.Its hard to stay loving when you`re living with that constant rejection of you with every look,action, word.
Is that rejection though just their subconscious way of testing our changes?They hope we`ll yell back at them from our Old Me place so they`ll feel justified in ditching the marriage?And, better still, we might even tell them we`re through with them anyhow.
So, from my reading of Greek, at this time of rejection we really have to continue to show our changes in the face of it.