UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Eskimo Nell]

Reality is he probably doesn't know himself yet.

You reckon, Cas?? Well, that gives me renewed hope.

I have just been to the shower, manicured and trimmed all my lady bits ... taken away all that which should not be there and improved all the bits that should! That, this time, was for me and no-one else... and it feels good to look after myself a bit. Smelling of my favourite body wash and oils now, my mood is a little lighter.

I think that the WAS definitely has the same script - to within a word or two! I have heard much of what you said, above. Trouble is, my H has rented an hour away from me, so that's a big issue as I see things, right now.

Just wondering how I go about asking him to come and give the help around the place that he promised to do - maintainence and heavy stuff. I've managed this long but it is getting too much for me out in the garden and then I notice that I have let other stuff slide. I don't want to get in a rut and it's his responsibility too, which he did acknowledge, up until the fiasco that was last weekend! I shall stay away though and try to figure out how I broach it when he next contacts me.