Indeed. My H said that, even if ow doesn't work out, he still won't be back. I don't know what to make of that really ...
Nell, remember that just because H said that it doesn't really mean it's accurate. We've both been told that plenty of times before. I just thought of something to support that...my H has said a few things along the way:
* told me early on that ow was better than I've ever been,(later apologised and told me he said that cos it was the most hurtful thing he could think of at the time) * told me how much he hated me and never wanted to see me again, (then had to apologise and tell me he didn't really hate me, he would always care for me. That didn't mean he didn't tell me hated me at some other stage yet again. He hates me so much he buys a house 5 mins drive from me, visits me in hospital, has dinner together, goes for walks with me, talks on the phone with me etc, etc) * told me he was organising the divorce the next day (several times now...still waiting on that)
He would also say that in his attempt to stop you pressuring him. Reality is he probably doesn't know himself yet.
