You also don't need to be dragged in to any more unpleasantness.
It was the w of the om that came to you ... rest on that knowledge and (even though it's not right) feel a bit of smugness and self-satisfaction that all is not well in the new R your WAW has gotten herself into. May help you to detach even further!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"