I wouldn't be so sure she has no feelings left for you. Mybe she doesn't, but maybe she does.

How much have you worked on GAL'ing and detaching? Detaching isn't giving up or not having feelings for your W. It's more about you accepting what you cannot control. Accepting the worst case scenario and realizing you will come out of it ok. It's not what you want, but you will be ok.

A large part of detaching, at least for me, is building up your self confidence. I used to be low in that area - probably one of the things that turned off my W. The more self confidence i was able to develop, the more I realized that, God forbid, I got D'd, there are a lot of beautiful women out there who would think I'm not too shabby.

What can you do to lift your self esteem? Tihs whole process is he!! on your self-confidence.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current