Nell, from my own perspective I say leave it be. Do not contact him. Eventhough you don't realise it you are becoming stronger through nc. From my own personal perspective I was much stronger and more independent with NC. I probably should have made H work a bit harder to resume contact and I think if he doesn't initiate contact this week I will go quiet again. I've learnt now that it does affect him.
btw did you see that Greg Norman and Chris Evert have split?
