Hi LW - read your sitch and so sorry that you are here as well.
"In the past, it was always vague requests "pay more attention to the family" or "spend less" followed by just as vague promises. Since she stopped complaining a few months ago, I assumed I had finally found the right amount of whatever. Now I know its because she had been planning to leave me for that entire time.
I've been such an idiot. As many others on this board have said, this shouldn't be what it took to wake me up, but apparently it was."
Your quote above is exactly how I feel right now. Definitely working on myself and taking things one day at a time. Going to go buy DB tomorrow and also re-read DR at some point, Thanks for the advice!
