Sounds like you have a very good grip on what is going on around you. Like Tristan said, listen to your gut on the OM. You know your W better than anyone on this board....it is easy to be naive and say this person would never do this but WHAM! - that is when you realize what is really going on.
M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4
Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!
