I am just sat, waiting for him to come to me .... and I wait ... and wait ... and wait ..... When do I take some action for myself?? I was thinking of calling him to say that I will be in his neighbourhood on Wednesday evening - could we meet after work to discuss some financial matters. Is this a good or bad thing to do??
Bad thing. Very bad thing. Leave him alone for now.
Do nothing to move towards him. You have to allow space for him to move towards you.
