Originally Posted By: Hope4Luv
My guess is she'd def. scared to talk about it. But looking at the positive - she didn't shut you down. Remember BABY STEPS!!


OK, let's play this out, hypothetically. Why would she be scared to talk about this?

It's the acknowledgment of the "current situation" but choosing not to alk about it at all that has me perplexed. If she felt pressure from me bringing this up, I would expect to get push back and/or pull back. I got neither.

So, in all probability, one would think it is more likely she hasn't made up her mind, but, at a minimum, she is not dead set on D right now. That could explain why she didn't bring it up - she doesn't know what to say. B/c she still doesn't know what she wants - D or R.

And, yes, I know this is pure mindreading. But it is interesting.

It won't change what I am doing. I plan to be a big help with the party tomorrow and enjoy my little girl's party. She's going to have a ball.


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