OK, I definitely see your point, and I made a generalization about the WAS that was incomplete and unfair. Remeber, my POV is poisoned by my experience.
Maybe I just read a lot of sitch's where the WAS is still angry/hurt and that is the part that comes through in the posts.
In any event, I always learn something from your posts, and tonight is no exception.
So, question for you. How did your's and Coach's situation evolve into working on the M? I had a big step for me tonight and, rather than take more of Thinker's thread, I posted about that on my thread. Was a perfect opportunity for my W to jump into a discussion on the R, but no dice.