Hi..Jackie..I know the down days..but tomorrow is a new day.
I know I have said this before..somewhere!! But this past year that h has been gone has been a great eye opener for both of us......of course i wish it all never would have happened..but I also found another side of me and I believe h did too, that we did not know was there..we have been able to breath and work on US...I know it sounds rosey..and i don't want anyone to think for a minute that I recommend it, but give it a chance to renew you..and your h himself.
My thought on the family doing any talking to him...NOT...that could do more harm than you really want right now...keep your m to you and your h, and don't listen to all the people that "only want the best" for you....the only people that seem to be angry with my h is my family..why?? because I said a few things early on in all this..before I knew the whole story from h, and now they seem to want to stay in that one conversation despite what i have tried to tell them..now I won't even talk to them about anything...most of our mutual friends have stayed inpartial, and h family is as kind to me as before..so don't tell people things that may one day bite you back..come here to vent.
