I watch your timeline..(better known as your life) through these posting and hope that I get to where you are. You continue to work on just building your own life - amazing.
Glad your son is doing well. So glad that they have a "little pill" to help you with the thyroid.
Out here in the South - always thinking about you!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
It is homecoming this weekend. Ex brought his bimbo to the picture taking time at my daughter's boyfriends home.
I was speechless, but handled myself well. Bimbo was all dolled up because she knew I would be there.
What next guys. I don't know if I can handle this anymore...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Oh, T, I can't imagine how hard that was! Not sure if I've posted to you before, but I remember my Ds homecoming events, and they seemed at the time to be such rites of passage, a special time for them and us. To have OW intrude would be so hard. Did your D give your H permission to do this, or did they just show up?
(((Trusting)))
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
No, he brings her everywhere. I was not expecting this...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I know, it just took me by surprise that he would haul her to this. He was so cocky and arrogant and even struted with his OW. It was shocking to watch.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Almost 2 years after your D, you should probably expect this (yes, I know it's still hard!) But how does your D feel about it? That should be your focus, I think. Are you considering your feelings over hers? Just asking.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
My daughter was very uncomfortable with the whole thing. She could not wait until ex and I parted.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
