The Thread With No Home

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Hi Jackie ~

It is good to hear from you. I was getting concerned about you. I do understand about the funk and wanting to do nothing but pull the covers up over your head. I think you're in survival mode right now, and you need to care of yourself in whatever way seems right. (((((Jackie)))) Maybe give it a few more days and then set a small goal for yourself each day? Something little like a walk around the block. I'm not being critical, and I know how this in between time is so painful and tiring. Just don't want you to get too far down about this. Don't want to sound like a broken record, but think of this as time for your H to think. That's it. Try to depersonalize his behavior, including the moving out. This is next to impossible to do on some days. (((((Jackie)))))

Thank you for posting on my thread. You are right about the digs. I've got to really watch it or one or two could come out of my mouth, and you're right, I can't let that happen. Thank you for keeping me in line .

I would also have to agree with Floyd abuot your family talking to your H. Each family is different, so you know what's best, but it seems this may really put your H on the defensive and I also worry that any discussion between them may make it tough for your H and your family during a reconciliation. Again, not trying to be critical, just thinking out loud.

Please post when you can/feel like it. Your input means alot to me. You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.