The only drawback I can see is that you may not be pushing yourself on the self improvement things because you already know that you will make it through this. That's why I've been harping on the GAL activities, reading, etc.
Guilty as charged!
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done
