I would be honest about your feelings. In addition, ask her out on a date. A real date or better yet meet her out and flirt with her, pick up on her and pay attention to her like you had just met her and were trying to get together with her. Even get adventurous with hooking up later. Maybe have a fantasy of hers waiting when you get home.
Basically make the entire thing about her. Everyone wants attention. I am definitely and an expert or have great advice like many in the forums. This is just my opinion. Trust me bro, I had a great lady, smart, beautiful, intelligent, independent, strong, sexy, everything. Tell her and make her feel that way or someone else might. Your the ones she loves. Love her and admire her too!
I hope she loves me. We're not in the same house and she claims she's moving on. But would like to get to that point. anyway, I withheld affection and now feel it's called for. I try not to be pushy but fear it may at times come across that way.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
