Thanks all for the support. I have just been in one of those funks where all I want to do is sleep and pull the covers over my head, and I have been doing that.

H has been coming home early of late, when I say something, oh your home early, he gets mad at me, I'm trying to be home earlier, don't make a big deal of it, I just don't know what the point is. He leaves 11/5, so why bother now? Ugh. Tons of LLBean stuff are arriving for the new place. I hate to see the cc bill when it comes.

His parents were up this weekend for s7 soccer game. H didn't say anything to them and I didn't force it.

I haven't said boo about the R, his moving out, or anything. We just kind of tip toe around each other and have no meaningful conversations. My mother called to speak to him, he has not called her back. She has a list of legitimate questions for him and he is willing to talk to her. Should be interesting.

Jackie