Oh, T, I can't imagine how hard that was! Not sure if I've posted to you before, but I remember my Ds homecoming events, and they seemed at the time to be such rites of passage, a special time for them and us. To have OW intrude would be so hard. Did your D give your H permission to do this, or did they just show up?
(((Trusting)))
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man