You are assuming you are dealing with a well adjusted, reasonable "SHE." And a WAS is not any of those things. They are illogical, emotionally driven creatures. Not "thought" driven, "feel" driven. They go with what they feel.
All the questions you are asking above are valid. It's just that the questions assume your W is reasonable and can see through her fog to notice what WE all know is obvious.
Well how did WE get so smart?
GIMA ~~~ don't make me come over there!
You guys are referring to this woman like she has some sort of deficiency. Come on! Just b/c WE don't agree or see her POV does not mean she has some FLAW or is in some altered state which precludes her from thinking things through.
Go LSU Greek
I understand my wife's point of view. I understand my wife feels the way she does.
I also understand GIMA's point of view. I understand he feels the way he does.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.