What do I do when W goes out. I know she's going out, flirting w/ guys, etc. She claims it's just to feel pretty and wanted, that there's no chance of her hooking up. But it aches to not be the one to take her out with me.

Should I ignore this? Tell her she'll be the prettiest one there?

(think I'll start a new thread on this topic...)

Last edited by M A Holm; 10/03/09 09:49 PM.
~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)