Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

[antlers]

I want to feel worthy of real love. I'd like to feel it from her once again.

IMHO, the most loving thing you could possibly do for yourself is meditate and work toward decoupling those two statements in your mind and heart......

..... nothing wrong with wanting both, mind you. But allowing the first to remain dependent on the second is a cheeseless tunnel and keeps your focus in the wrong place.

You have changed. You can change this, too.

I'll work on it Kettricken.

Yeah...I wanted both. I understand completely about "allowing the first to remaind dependent on the second" being a cheeseless tunnel and keeps the focus in the wrong place. Very insightful.

Yes, I have. And for the better, too! I believe that...I just think it takes time, effort, and more hard work.