Talked with my W today on the phone. The kids called to say hi. She's visiting her dad (her parents divorced at about the same point in their marriage, with kids at about the same ages as us now). It's a good break for her. I like her dad. Her mom has told her to "keep angry if you plan to follow through with divorce"...great advice, huh?
Anyway, the conversation was fine, we discussed mediation on Monday, like I said earlier, she plans to file paperwork Monday, so I will be prepared for that. Not sure what will happen though.
I ended the call...something I never do. I told her that I needed to go and that she should have a good weekend and safe trip home and I would see her Monday at 10:00 (at our appointment with the Mediator).
I went to the video store to get some movies. Got the "Story of Us", probably not the best movie, but one I have watched in the past and feel like seeing how disasters can turn around tonight.
Tomorrow is church, and I am looking forward to that. The kids and I cuddled and watched movies today (rainy dreary day outside). We'll do more of that tonight.
Does anyone have any good recommentations for movies for a guy in my situation. I realize divorce is on the horizon, I don't want it, but also don't want to be one of those people who can't ever let go. It's only been a month for me and I know I don't want to let go in my heart, but have in my head (i.e. the DB techniques). I guess I am looking for a movie about hope, one way or the other. Watched definitly, Maybe last night...good movie. Something like that.
