I think that Dia's thread has an aphrodisiac quality, don't you? It seems that folks who follow it have become inspired. Don't know what really happened with you and H, but it sounds positive. This is basic DB-ing --- try something new and monitor results.
Regarding some of your previous posts, I read somewhere that God made M to help us grow. It sounds as though you ARE growing and becoming a better partner (for this or a future relationship). Remember, even if it is not apparent that H is growing too right now, he may be. The forces of the universe are at work in all of us. In my sitch, my dinner convo with H 2 nights ago revealed that H has been having some realizations, even if he doesn't state them in so many words. One important realization for H seems to be that life really isn't as rosy 1 year after the bomb as he expected it to be. H told me he isn't planning any vacations because he spent too much on his house and furnishings. He said that he thinks God is responsible for his hectic work schedule (H left me because I worked too much, now our roles have completely switched. ) See what a difference 12 months can make?
) See what a difference 12 months can make?
