Just caught up on your sitch. I agree with Cas, Nell, and you that it may be time for "gucci-like" measures. Think of it as an experiment in the short term and monitor results. I know just how hard it is to do this sort of thing.....your emotions are all over the place, even more than when you are straight-out trying to re-establish contact (i.e. pursuing).
Question: in the past did you and your H ever have a pursuer - distancer dynamic? If so, did your H ever play the pursuer role? If so, he probably has it in him to do that again. What was it about that time that made him want to pursue? You might be able to play this card again????
Thanks for your fabulous suggestions for my "date" night with H. I posted a synopsis on my thread. If you have a chance I'd love your feedback on my evening with H. The "racy" stuff is at the end ----mild compared to YOUR sitch. I'm reading your post to get more flirting ideas.
