No doubt that is true. The problem IMHO, is that we male the mistake (me too) of allowing our self-worth to originate solely from our W and kids. And I think that is a big mistake. Our self worth is exactly that - what WE believe OUR worht is to OURSELVES. It can only be true self worth if it originates, and resides in, us. It cannot come from anywhere else or it isn't self worth, b/c its dependent upon something beyond our control. Hope I didn't lose anyone.

Point is for us to be healthy, we have to be able to be happy by ourselves and with ourselves. That cannot, therefore depend on anything or anyone ELSE.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
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