Jackie...hope today is a little brighter...pick something positive each day to foccus on......sorry about the sister thing...I have a nasty sister who has never liked my h and he tries to tolerate her...but I would not stand for her to talk to my h like that.....limit what you tell her....family has a tendancy to blame the other one depending on what you tell.
Could you find another church to attend....talking to a pastor should not be a bad experience.