I'm wondering - Lulu, (or anyone else)...when your S decided to leave, what did he/she say? Just curious. My H said he wasn't happy, hadn't been happy for a long time, that I don't have what he needs to be happy, too many things have changed, he just doesn't love me the way he used to, bascially - ILYBINILWY.

Such a slap in the face. IDK why I'm thinking about it today, but he's never going to see me in a different light if I don't SHOW him I'm that I'm still the happy, fun, carefree girl he fell in love with.

Why am I having such a hard time bringing the fun side of me back? Besides GAL what else can I do? I feel like he's never around to see a fun side of me. We never go to dinner, spend time with our friends, or do anything together. How can I show him I'm happy and fun when I hardly ever see him? I know he enjoys "Fun Courtney" - but he NEVER sees her! And how happy and fun can I be at home cooking dinner, cleaning up the house, getting DD ready for bed? That's the only time he sees me. And besides, I've been trying to leave when he comes over - so again, he never sees me. ?????????

I don't get it.

Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010