Thanks PH. I still don't know what my evening plans are going to be but I'm going to do something, the party thing is always a backup plan.
I think I'm going to pass on the card. I really can't even envision myself picking one out without making a mockery out of it all.
I have to share a funny story. Today during the car ride on a family day outing, I asked H if he told his coworkers that he were separated. He says, "some know, some don't. It's all on a need to know basis. I learned a long time ago to keep my personal life and work life separate". I laughed out loud and said, "that's funny!". I just couldn't hold back. H had a PA with the company hired interpreter on his business trip in June. THAT is why we are in this mess. What a [censored] idiot. Anyway, he says to me, "Don't start". All I could say was, "come on, you have to admit, that was funny." I didn't get a reply.
So not DB'ing but man, I couldn't hold back.
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09