Originally Posted By: whatdidido
You sound different, DCBHM. I can't put my finger on it.....

Be careful with that anger. It leads to things that are not admirable. You seek good council in the matters of your possessions/custody/divorce, make sure you seek good council in the matters of your heart/life/spiritual being. We all tend to forget how important that is.


I think part of it is that I'm completely detached. I really don't feel anything when I'm around W at this point.

I'm angry toward her, but I'm not making any decisions out of anger and am checking myself and my motives. I'm enjoying time I spend with the kids, and focusing on moving on.

I think the difference in me can be attributed to the fact that I've seen what W is capable of doing, and A-speak or not, I have no desire to be in a relationship with someone capable of what she has done to my children.

I'd rather be alone.


"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."