I think I need to detach more, but can we it be done while "dating"? W is in Arizona this weekend and I miss her.

I plan taking the girls to a pumpkin festival tonight with a group of single parents. However, since my W and I have started getting back together, I haven't done a whole lot for myself with my time away the girls. In fact I have often found myself with them and W during that time, which I enjoy, but I also think it is sliding me back to the same emotional spot where I was before the seperation, which was not healthy.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1