Jackie..sorry about the weekend...he really is confused..and since you are there he can blame you...I can't give much advice about all this..as I did not deal with any anger like that...keep taking care of you...come here to vent...you have a right to be angry..sad..to cry...but come here for support so it does not pull you down so far that you can't get back up...When all this started with me alst year, I kept telling myself I was not going to slip into a basket case.......sure there are bad days....but keeping a grip is important..you said you go to bible group...do you have a pastor that you could just talk to..and you know what I don't think you have to account to your h who you choose to tell.....just remember when you tell someone they may twist it if they repeat it...you learn who your "real" friends are in sitchs like this.I don't think you should go into any details as to the whys of the problems..the last thing you want to do is to paint your h as the bad guy...yea he is acting like a jerk....but keep those things between just you two..I learned the hard way about what and to whom you tell.
