Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

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For those who have been in this sitch, should I expect to hear from her, or will she go dark and enjoy this new found freedom?

I liked the idea of a man fixing up the house the way "he" liked it. Man if that ever makes a statement to a WAW who left her home & family......that sure would! The first time she walks back into the house and see the "male touch" in place of her womanly touch to the home......wow, look out. She will be so shocked that she'll be close to faining at first, and then she may blow another gasket.

Oh yes! This was huge for me. When I moved out, Coach moved his drum set smack in the middle of our - scratch that - HIS living room. So the first time I popped over to pick up our D and saw that - stand back. At first I thought, "See, that's just so him to bugger up a beautiful house with a crap move like that." Then I thought, "Wait...maybe he always wanted to do that and now that I'm out of his way, he can do the things that he wants to do - even if it is stupid." Then it was, "How dare he ..." Oh yes, I remember this well. I told my friend about it and she said "You care why?" I had to sit with that for awhile. It impacted me.

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