Don't mind Steve and I, we're just bitter because our Football teams are tanking and we have to project our "Confusion" somewhere. LOL
I think you should go to Walmart and buy a 16 inch iron fry pan. If H angers you, you can heave it at him. With this fry pan you have a few options.........
First off, by the time you can lift up the pan and throw it, it'll be enough time to calm down.
If he's still there and making you mad, throw the fry pan at him. No worries of him escalating the argument, he'll be DEAD from the 20lbs (Pound LOL) fry pan.
And if you miss altogether, well all the spackle in the world is not going to help patch up the hole in the wall. Might have to find a carpenter. Hey, are you into Blue Collar guys Jackie? Maybe a good way to meet men? LOL
All joking aside, you are so grounded and your H is going through the mental anguish of leaving the family. I too couldn't believe that my S was the one hurting, I never thought of it that way. I was stuck on what I was going through, part of my problem in the M. Easy to fix though. I kinda think of it this way, only the scared runaway, like animals. It's the ones that stick around that scare the poop out of me.
Berto
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death
