Quote: As Rob say, it is a no-win situation and since I can't win, I need not try to please him. I need to do things that please me and the boys and do what I can to get through the day. I have to remember he is not rational, this isn't personal, I'm not that bad a person, he is just going through a really rough time.
That's the attitude, Jackie. Keep doing what is right. He'll eventually have to get it. My H used to say it was my fault or my problem. Just yesterday, the tune was 'don't blame yourself, it was my fault.' Nice change, even if it took time...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
