Originally Posted By: robx
[quote=SmileysPerson]....Now comes today, and MY Fog-boundedness afloat on the White Ship, and WAW's jealousy, and her loutish behavior -- apparently she did find someone to bl*w, though I hope for his sake she didn't bl*w it off -- and of course my affair (her words) with the "homewrecker" Miss Someone. (Though again how a home that was already wrecked could be homewrecked is something WAW has yet to explain.

So Greek do you still believe that SP's wife is sorry for her actions after she admits to him today that she went out and did what she did? Seriously how can anyone tolerate that?


Yeah, I do still think that she will feel regret for this, as well. I think this b/c all that we read about Mrs. SP points to her being extremely confused - and I can relate to that. When I left Coach, I was confused, hurt, angry and while I looked definite, I dealt with many, many questions. I didn't have an A or even entertain a single advance - however, I said things to Coach in my confusion that I wish now I could take back. So to answer your question, while she may not feel sorry for it now, once she has distance from the fog of WAR, she will most likely wish she had not lobbed that grenade at SP or done that to herself. Both of them will. We both do. It's comes with the territory, I'm afraid.

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If she is sorry for what she is done, she can't just say "I'm sorry" and leave it at that, she has to do better, heck we teach our kids that at an early age, I have a Mercer Mayer book I read to the kids (among a hundred others), titled "I'm Sorry" and near the end the kids in the story learn that sometimes sorry isn't enough and if sorry isn't enough it means we have to do better next.
You are exactly right.

Greek


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