I know it's hard. They can't be consistent and it's very very difficult.
Originally Posted By: kassie
he wanted me to want to be with him and not be depressed.
This quote just shows how much growing he still needs to do...that's an example of how they can't cope with other people's feelings, and want things how they want them, and not empathize, and control what other people feel and how they express it.
I'm sorry you're going through this transition and trying to deal with this at the same time. What kind of support are you getting outside of this R? Do you have a sponsor?
Wish I could talk more but I'm leaving for a couple days. Thinking of you though...
