I could have written your last post myself. It is almost exactly the same things I have heard and seen for the past 10 months. In that respect, your not alone. I feel for you, I really do, I am looking for support myself in this time.
We have to stop reacting to what our WAW's are doing, and take the lead for ourselves, whatever that is. I wished I could offer advice on what that is, but I have not found it myself yet. Keep looking, there is happiness for us out there, if we make it happen!
Right now, things will be tough, we have to accept that, and move through day by day, minute by minute at times. For our kids, and ourselves. We can not control, nor fix, nor change our WAW's. We have to acknowledge that as well.
I know you have heard all this before, and so have I. It doesn't help with how you may feel in this instant. What will Antler's life look like when he has no-one to answer to but himself and his kids?
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
