I learned from a psychiatrist, that it is not unusual at all...

"If one spouse has a major MLC, it is normal for the LBS to have a less intense midlife crisis."

Also learned that "statistics say 70% of LBS,if they thrive will end up happier and more fulfilled in life than the WAS."

Those were quotes.

Also to quote Winston Churchill,"if you're in hell,you work through hell."

Or my favorite movie quote that I've applied to myself from the Titans movie.

"RUN IT UP,LEAVE NO DOUBT." So yeah we all need to not leave any doubt.